You just know that you love this girl. The ecstatic feeling of being in love hits you but you don’t know for sure if you’re both on the same page. Does she want to be in the next chapter of a relationship with you? It’s a whole lot better when you know for sure that she loves you too. A girl won’t help to show how she feels about you. There will be obvious actions and signs she loves you, and it’s not hard to sense that.
Before Taking It To the Next Level
Before you put your heart on the line or make a step to bring the relationship to the next level, you have to be aware that there’s a risk to take. Of course, you won’t typically see this on the first date. It can take some time to see the signs a girl loves you, so there’s no need to rush. Knowing these signs will keep you from guessing those mixed signals and sadly end up in the friend zone. When a woman is in love with a man, it does come naturally.
31 Guaranteed Signs She Loves You
Many guys feel that it’s hard to read between the lines and get the real score with a woman. But men need to take some effort to know how a woman thinks and feels. She would consciously or unconsciously show some signs she’s interested in you. Get to read these signals on how to know if a girl loves you.
1. Puts you first.
A woman in love will always find a way to make you her priority. No matter how much she has on her plate, she’ll see to it that she makes you on top of her list. She will always have you in mind and can easily drop anyone else for you, whether it’s a small favor or something she can do for you. She won’t think twice about making adjustments for herself because she wants you to be number one.
2. Loves spending time with you.
One of the most obvious signs a girl really likes you is when she loves spending time with you. Your presence is something she’s excited about and longs for. She makes an effort to spend time with you and is not afraid to ask you to do so. She would always look forward to a time together. If being with you means she needs to dodge the group hangouts, she will most likely be into you.
3. Shows you genuine care.
One of the signs she loves you deeply is the way she shows genuine care about you. She deliberately invests her time and efforts. Women are wired to have a nurturing disposition. She will offer you ways she can help, even going out of her way for you. You’ll notice that the care she shows you are much more profound and different from other friends or people around her. Whether it’s as simple as cooking for you or showing up when you’re sick, she’s ready to show how much she cares.
4. She takes note of small details about you.
When a girl shows interest in details about you like your favorite things, hobbies or loves to mention good or attractive things about you, it’s one of the signs a woman is falling in love with you. She would be keen on dates or things important to you and let you know that she remembers them. It’s her way of making you feel that you mean a lot to her. She may even surprise you by randomly telling you details she noted about you like a post you made on social media.
5. She remembers the details of your conversations.
As much as she remembers details about you, one of the love signs you can look out for is how she remembers things you talked about. When you spend time in meaningful conversations, she takes note of the things you said, whether it’s an opinion or thoughts you shared. She keeps in mind the things you say and reminds you of what you said, probably from the last conversation you had.
6. Acts nervous around you.
It’s how she acts when you’re around that gives it away. Pay attention to how she would shy away or look gitty when you take notice of her. A bubbly laugh, how she strokes her hair, or how she tries to fix her dress, are signs she is excited to be with you at that moment. She likes that you are with her, and that’s something she can’t hide. She tries to compose herself, probably cautious not to turn you off.
7. Expresses her affection.
You’ll know you’ve won your girl’s heart when you feel her expressing her affections openly. She freely expresses it through body language. Her smiles are noticeably different and you sense her positive vibe when she’s around you. Tight hugs, soft kisses, and gentle touches are ways she would express love to you. And she does this with full emotion and genuine care. She would most likely initiate intimacy and flirt with you.
8. She gets a bit jealous.
A girl who loves you would want to keep you, exclusively. She may act cold and distant when she sees you talking with another woman. Her jealousy would raise questions and sarcastic remarks when she hears you’re with someone else. She may grab attention to let you know she’s in to win this competition of having you and rivals won’t threaten her. Studies show that people in love show some kind of emotional dependency on their partners and it’s one of the proven signs of love.
9. Introduces you to her circle.
One of the signs a woman is falling in love with you is when she starts to include you in her important circles. She is excited to see you bond with the people she loves. She is thrilled when she introduces you to family, friends, and even her best friends. This is her way to let you feel that if her close circle matters to her, you also matter to her. For her, this is more than a casual introduction, it’s letting other people meet the man in her life.
10. Becomes vulnerable to you.
Some women don’t easily put their defenses down. A reason could be a past traumatic experience that left them scared to love again. But one of the signs she is developing feelings for you is when she lets her life become an open book to you. She shares her past and everything she’s currently going through. She wants to process her thoughts and emotions with you. When a woman loves, she invests emotionally. Becoming vulnerable is also a sign her trust in you is now at a deeper level.
11. Cheers you up.
She loves to cheer you on. A girl who loves you will affirm and celebrate even the seemingly small feats or accomplishments you have. She wants to show her all-out support and will be excited about the steps of progress you’re making. Because your girl would really love to see you win, she’ll be your supportive fan and consistent encouragement.
12. Comforts you when you’re down.
But she also knows that you would have low moments in your life. In times you’re having bad days, feeling down and out, or frustrated, she’s ready to give comfort and just be there for you. She will see this as an opportunity to show that she loves you the most, even when you feel you have nothing to give. It makes you realize “she’s in love with who I am”, flaws and all.
13. Makes you feel you’re on the same team.
She loves you and assures you she can be your partner, running by your side. She wants to be that best friend you can rely on. You can be assured that you don’t have to go through things alone and you can work things out together with her. For her, to love someone would entail a commitment to stand with you no matter what.
14. Treats you with much respect.
One of the tangible signs of true love from a woman is the way she respects her man. She would pay attention to what you have to say, your values, opinions, and perspective. Meeting you halfway with decisions is something she willingly gives. You’ll see the level of respect she has for you during disagreements or conflicts. She may not always agree with you but she’s open to hearing and understanding you. Even in your arguments, she will refrain from being rude or degrading to you. If someone really loves you, respect in your relationship will be more important than any issue.
15. Always willing to make sacrifices.
A loving woman does not hesitate to make sacrifices for the guy she loves. She finds ways to express love sacrificially and will not count her efforts. To her, these sacrifices are always worth it. Making you happy and finding ways she can help gives her a sense of fulfillment. You will probably see that she’ll be willing to contribute to a relationship you’ll have together.
16. Imitates your actions.
One of the obvious signs she loves you is when she starts to mimic you. When a girl loves you so much, she sees you as someone she looks up to and admires. She is sold out that whatever you say or do matters to her. She may unconsciously begin to copy how you act. Mimicking is also a picture of someone wanting to seek the approval of the person they love. She is confident to follow you and secure on how you lead her.
17. Shares things about you.
You are sure she has true feelings for you when she can’t help sharing about you. She frequently mentions your name during conversations with friends. There’s just a burst of energy and excitement when she talks about you. A woman in love is proud to tell the world about the man who makes her heart skip a beat. Some women may actively post on their social media to share this excitement.
18. Values your opinions and approval.
Part of giving her respect to you is valuing your opinions and getting your approval. It’s not because she doubts herself or doesn’t have a mind of her own with things. Acknowledging your views is her way of giving you the hint that what you say in her life is important to her. She will probably ask you what you have in mind. And she’s ready to receive and pay attention to you. Listening to your opinions means she puts value on what you have to say and knows she can share her views freely.
19. Encourages you to become better.
A person who deeply loves you will help you improve and become better. She would inspire you and believe in what you are capable of. She will shower you with positive words to motivate you and do your best. Learning your interest and doing things you’re passionate about allows her to see how she can help you grow as a person.
20. Lovingly corrects you.
She loves to encourage you but she would not miss lovingly correcting you. She knows that true love is not about tolerating your wrongs. Don’t take this as her way of control or overpowering you. To really love you better, she knows that tough love is needed. You’ll see her sincerity and commitment to see you grow in your manhood.
21. Accepts your flaws.
She loves you but also knows you’re not perfect. She can love you the most in your flaws and mistakes. As much as she becomes vulnerable to you, allowing her to see your vulnerabilities is something she would embrace. A loving woman will accept her man’s flaws and challenge him to be better. You’ll also sense her nurturing attitude towards you in accepting who you are. And in the end, you’ll be proud to say that she loves you and you’ll love her more.
22. Speaks good things about you.
To the woman who loves you, you’ll always have a good thing in you. She will speak highly of you especially when you’re not around. A sure sign she loves you is when she focuses on building you up to people around her and even on social media. When you madly love someone, it’s the good things about them that run in your mind. And as they say, what usually comes out with what we say is what’s really in our hearts.
23. Defends you from what others say.
A woman in love doesn’t allow her man’s reputation to be tainted. How to know if someone loves you? When she always has your back. She’s ready to defend you and take leaps to guard you, especially from gossip. To her, true love means you can go against the world together. She trusts you with what you say, more than what she hears about you.
24. Can’t help to impress you.
One of the love signs you can watch out for in her efforts to impress you. Whether it’s dressing nicely or showing off something she’s good at, she aims to get herself noticed and affirmed. She shares things like cooking for you or doing something creative as a gift. A girl who’s into you is there to wow you with what she can do.
25. Loves to make you smile.
She loves to make you smile and see you happy. Even in small ways, she would try to brighten your day. When a woman loves, she freely and naturally expresses it. She gets familiar with how your love tank gets full. She doesn’t just say, “I love you” but acts on that without excuses. Take time to read about how to show someone you love them without saying it because she might already be showing how much she loves you.
26. Begins to love what you love.
What you love, she learns to love, too. One of the sure signs she loves you is making you see that the things that matter to you also matter to her. It can be as trivial as a hobby, interest, or more serious things like values, family, life goals, and dreams. She shows interest even in the things she may not have been interested in before. She wants to get into your world and enjoy that with you.
27. Cares about your family and your past.
Because she loves what you love, she also learns to love the people you love including your family. She is not afraid to ask about your background, what your childhood was like, or your relationship with your siblings. At the same time, she’s also happy to share her side of her past. She wants to know these things to understand you better and show how much she accepts you. And there may be past issues you also need to put out in the open. Read about some attachment styles that might affect your relationship in the future.
28. She talks about a possible future with you.
And since she sees and understands your past, she has this growing inclination to see a possible future with you. A woman in love would never want something temporary. If someone really loves you, she sees the possibility of being with you forever. She may tell or ask you about having kids, what kind of family you want to have, or the kind of father you want to be. She might be considering seeing a parental role you can have if you would get married someday.
29. Lovingly stares at you.
Body language signs never lie. Eye contact signals how interested or attracted a person is to someone. The way she stares at you whether you’re in a crowd or spending time alone is more than the words she can express. She doesn’t see and mind anybody else when you get locked in her eyes. A grin or sudden smile radiates her face along with that stare. The way she gazes at you is an obvious love sign you can look at.
30. She’s downright honest with you.
She values what you already have together. Trust is built, emotions are laid, and lives are shared. When a woman is in love with a man, she knows she can and needs to be honest with him. The girl who wants you would dare to be open about how she feels and sees things between the two of you. She will be honest not just with her words but also with her actions. She wants you to know that she’s the real deal.
31. Says she loves you and she does!
And she will let you know that she loves you because she does. One of the signs of true love from a woman is when she honestly tells you how she feels about you. She wants to have clarity and let you know that she loves you so much. She lets you know that she’s serious and won’t play games with you.
Since you’re sure you have feelings for her and see obvious signs she loves you, then go ahead and take the relationship to the next level. And bottom line is, it takes both of you to work on love and respect to make the relationship last. It takes time to see signs that she loves you but it takes a lifetime to keep your love for each other.